First, prep the tofu: Freeze and defrost your tofu. Place the whole container (do not open it) in the freezer overnight. In the morning, remove it from the freezer and set it in a shallow dish on your counter to thaw. This will take several hours. When the tofu is thawed, squeeze it gently over the sink and press it with a tofu press or on paper towels to remove any excess liquid.
Marinate the tofu: Place your tofu on a cutting board and use your hands to gently rip wing-shaped pieces off of it. Alternatively, you can also slice the tofu into sticks, triangles, or flat rectangles for other shape options. Mix all the ingredients for the marinade and pour this over your tofu wings, making sure they are all nice and coated. Cover tightly and place in your fridge for at least an hour or up to 3 days.
Set up the breading station: Remove the tofu from the marinade and place it on a plate or cutting board or the lid of the container. To the container where the tofu was marinating, add the non-dairy milk and apple cider vinegar. Swish the mixture gently to combine. Get out two shallow bowls or pie plates. To one, add the starch. To the other, add the breadcrumbs.
Bread the tofu wings: Dip each tofu wing in the starch, then in the marinade/plant milk mix, then in the bread crumb mixture. Be sure to coat the tofu completely during each phase. Repeat for each wing.
Air fry the vegan wings: Add tofu wings to the air fryer basket, enough to fill the bottom in a single layer. We find we can fit 1 block of tofu in our Salton Flip and Cook at a time. Air fry for 30 minutes at 350F, stopping to shake the basket gently, just enough to loosen the pieces from the bottom, every 10-15 minutes.
Make the BBQ Sauce: While the tofu wings air fry, make the BBQ sauce by whisking together all the BBQ sauce ingredients in a saucepan over medium heat until bubbles begin to form. Then, remove from heat and set aside until it’s time to toss!
Bring it together: When the tofu wings are finished cooking, toss them with the BBQ sauce until totally coated.
Serve on a large platter with dipping sauces and veggie sticks!